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Table of Contents

What Others Say About This Book.................................. iv

Dedication.................................................... vii

Preface...................................................... xv

Acknowledgements............................................ xxiii

CHAPTER 1: The First Call – Initial Notification.............. 1

Case Example – The first-call without communication................... 1

Best Practice for Handling First-Calls Professionally and Effectively........ 2

Basic Information on a First-Call Form............................... 5

Documenting Special Requests..................................... 7

Some Things You Need to Achieve During the First-Call.................. 9

Some Things to Avoid During the First-Call:........................... 9

Using an Outside or Third-Party Transfer Company..................... 9

Using an Answering Service....................................... 10

Case Example - A good laugh and an unexpected party................. 14

CHAPTER 2: Transfer and Identification of the Decedent.... 15

Basic Responsibilities........................................... 15

Documenting the Transfer........................................ 17

Case Example: Sloppy Procedures Leads to Mix-Up.................... 18

Best Practice Guidelines for Transfers............................... 19

Learning from Hospitals......................................... 23

Universal Identification System - A System to Consider................. 23

Case Example: A Transfer Done Incorrectly.......................... 24

Case Example: A Transfer Done Right............................... 25

Outside and Third-Party Companies................................ 26

Deaths Involving Hospice ........................................ 27

Transfer and Decedent Receipt .................................... 28

CHAPTER 3: Arrival of Deceased at the Funeral Home....... 31

Case Example: Unhelpful Attendant Leads to Six-Figure Verdict .......... 32

Steps to Take Upon Arrival ...................................... 34

CHAPTER 4: The Arrangement Conference................. 36

Why the arrangement conference must be professionally conducted........ 36

The value of sharing an agenda ................................... 39

Best Practice in determining the person(s) with authority................. 41

Power of Attorney.............................................. 43

What is a Power of Attorney?..................................... 44

Case Example: What would you do?................................ 45

Common Law relationships...................................... 47

Case Example: Multiple spouse scenario............................ 48

When the next of kin is unavailable or hospitalized..................... 49

Fax authorizations............................................. 52

Indemnity agreement........................................... 52

Being alert to family dynamics .................................... 53

Dealing with perfectionists........................................ 54

Case Example: The client unable to be satisfied....................... 54

Reaching Informed Consent...................................... 55

Ascertaining how much information is considered adequate?............. 57

The General Price List........................................... 59

Use of forms.................................................. 60

CHAPTER 5: Verifying Identity of a Deceased Person........ 67

Means of Verifying Identity...................................... 68

Viewing – A Way to Assure Other Family Members..................... 69

Case Example: Same Last Names.................................. 70

Policy Contents for Verifying Identity............................... 71

Identification of Decomposed or Other Difficult Cases.................. 72

Identification is primary. Viewing is secondary......................... 73

Case Example – A Father’s Need to Know........................... 74

Using a Waiver Instead of Viewing the Person’s Body................... 75

Verification by Photograph....................................... 76

Other Means of Verification...................................... 77

CHAPTER 6: Care and Preparation of a Deceased Person.... 79

Informing the Family and Receiving Authorization .................... 80

Case Example: The Coroner Advises Embalming ...................... 81

Opening Discussions with a Client Family ............................ 81

Case Example: Getting Started on the “Right Foot” ................... 82

Custody Factor ................................................ 83

Sheltering Guidelines ............................................ 85

Embalming-Care Report ......................................... 87

Contents of an Embalming-Care Report ............................. 89

Minimum Care when there is No Embalming ......................... 91

Viewing when the Deceased Person is Not Embalmed ................... 92

Case Example – The Concerned Nurse .............................. 93

Case Example: A Hard Lesson .................................... 95

Embalming ................................................... 96

Communicating with the Client Family .............................. 98

Using an Off-Premises Refrigeration-Embalming Facility ............... 100

Performing Due Diligence of the Off-Premises Facility ................. 101

Federal Trade Commission Funeral Rule and Embalming ............... 102

CHAPTER 7: Visitation – Wake – Funeral Ceremony........ 104

Case Example – Unfulfilled Promises .............................. 105

Educating the Staff and the First Viewing ........................... 106

Case Example – The Ignored Family .............................. 107

Case Example – Disbelieving Wife ................................ 108

The Funeral Ceremony ......................................... 109

Case Example: A scary funeral ................................... 110

Case Example – Leaky casket.................................... 112

Handling Personal Property during the Visitation
and Funeral Ceremony ....................................... 113

Describing Personal Property .................................... 115

Disposition of Personal Property.................................. 115

Is the Funeral Director Always Responsible for Personal Property? ........ 116

Case Example – The Missing Gold Watch........................... 117

Removing Personal Property  .................................... 119

Handling Personal Property for Shipment ........................... 120

The Procession to the Place of Disposition .......................... 120

Case Example – The Large Procession ............................. 127

CHAPTER 8: Disposition by Earth Burial
     and Entombment
....................................... 128

How to Set Appropriate Boundaries ............................... 132

What is a Funeral Director’s Role at a Cemetery? ..................... 133

Responsibilities at a Cemetery ................................... 134

Case Example: The Funeral by Invitation Only ...................... 136

When is the Funeral Director Relieved of Responsibility? ............... 137

Case Example: Funeral Director or Bystander? ...................... 137

Receipt for Deceased from Cemetery .............................. 140

Is a Burial Permit the Same as a Receipt? ........................... 141

Disinterment ................................................. 142

Guidelines for the Disinterment Process ............................. 143

Cemetery Inspections and Funeral Home – Cemetery Relations .......... 145

Case Example – Arlington National Cemetery’s high standards .......... 148

CHAPTER 9: Shipment of a Deceased Person............... 151

What is a Shipping Service?...................................... 152

Methods of Shipping Deceased Persons............................. 154

Classifications of Shipment...................................... 154

Areas for Concern............................................. 154

Foreign Consulate Offices....................................... 155

Basic Requirements for International Shipment...................... 157

Receiving a Deceased Person from a Foreign Country.................. 158

Dealing With the Client Family................................... 160

Case Example: Unexpected Snowstorm............................. 161

Disclosures on an “Authorization for Shipment” Form.................. 163

Type of Shipping Containers..................................... 164

Viewing Prior to Shipment....................................... 167

Preparation of the Deceased for Shipment........................... 168

Documenting Care to the Deceased................................ 169

Case Example: Left Alone at the Airport............................ 173

Local shipment or transfer of remains.............................. 174

Shipment of cremated remains................................... 175

Best Practice Guidelines for Receiving Cremated Remains at the
Funeral Home from the Crematory............................... 176

Case Example: An Unexpected Trip to Hawaii....................... 178

Shipping Cremated Remains..................................... 180

International Shipment of Cremated Remains........................ 181

Carry-On Cremated Remains and TSA Requirements.................. 182

TSA Cremated Remains Container Requirements..................... 183

Proportioning Cremated Remains................................. 184

CHAPTER 10: Outside Service Providers Duty of Care
    and Negligence
.......................................... 186

Classification of Workers: Contractor or Employee?................... 188

Examining the “Special Relationship” Factor......................... 191

Case Example: What You Don’t Know Can Hurt You................... 192

Due Care - Negligence.......................................... 193

What is the Reasonable Person Concept?............................ 194

Being Familiar with Outside Contractors............................ 196

Qualifying Independent Contractors............................... 196

Case Example – The Unprepared Funeral Director.................... 198

Liability insurance coverage...................................... 200

Off-Premises Facilities.......................................... 203

Transferring a Deceased Person to an Off-Premises Facility.............. 204

Inspecting off-premises facilities.................................. 205

CHAPTER 11: Cremating a Person’s Remains............... 207

Cremation from the Funeral Director’s Point of View................... 207

Case Example: “Poof”.......................................... 209

Outside crematory agreement..................................... 211

Authority to Cremate........................................... 213

Faxed Authorizations or Authorizations at a Distance.................. 215

Case Example: Favorite Son and Disowned Daughters................. 216

Funeral Director’s Ace-in-the-Hole................................. 217

Cremation Authorization Form................................... 219

Formatting the Cremation Authorization Form........................ 221

Disclosures to Contain in the Cremation Authorization Form............. 222

Explaining the Cremation Process................................. 227

Identification and Cremating the Right Person........................ 229

Attaching the cremation tag...................................... 231

Removal of Medical Devices and Property........................... 232

Removal of Body Piercing....................................... 233

Final Verification at Funeral Home................................ 233

Best Practice when Transporting to the Crematory..................... 234

Receiving Cremated Remains from the Crematory.................... 235

CREMATING THE PERSON’S BODY.............................. 237

Best Practice for Accepting and Storage of the Deceased
    at the Crematory............................................ 237

Receipt for decedent........................................... 240

Opening Containers at the Crematory.............................. 241

Maintaining Identification at the Crematory......................... 242

Cremation Log Book........................................... 242

Performing the Cremation....................................... 244

Removing the Person’s Cremated Remains from the Chamber........... 245

Processing Cremated Remains.................................... 246

Case Example – The Toothless Client............................... 248

Placement into the Urn-Vessel and Minimum
    Container Requirements....................................... 249

Biodegradable Urns............................................ 250

Labeling the Urn-Vessel......................................... 251

Storage of Cremated Remains at the Crematory...................... 251

Releasing Cremated Remains..................................... 253

Case Example: Wrongful Release.................................. 254

Disposition of Cremated Remains................................. 255

Cremated Remains Disposers..................................... 258

Case Example – The Un-Scattered Cremated Remains.................. 258

Commingling of Cremated Remains............................... 259

Infant Cremation.............................................. 261

CHAPTER 12: Using an Outside Crematory and
    Crematory Inspections
................................... 263

Disclosures and due diligence..................................... 265

Due Diligence................................................. 265

Reasons funeral directors hesitate in performing inspections............. 268

Case Example: Close encounter of the wrong kind.................... 269

Defining an inspection.......................................... 274

Key attributes in conducting a crematory inspection................... 276

Performing a crematory inspection................................. 278

Two types of inspections........................................ 279

Formal-comprehensive inspections................................ 280

Crematory checklist............................................ 280

Further suggestions during inspections.............................. 283

Cremation log book............................................ 283

CHAPTER 13: Unclaimed Cremated Remains............... 285

A Nationwide Dilemma......................................... 286

The Responsibility Factor....................................... 288

Liability Factor............................................... 289

Why People Fail to Retrieve a Person’s Cremated Remains.............. 290

How to Prevent Abandoned-Unclaimed Cremated Remains............. 293

Financial Incentives........................................... 295

Safeguards When Storing Cremated Remains........................ 296

Disposition of Unclaimed Cremated Remains........................ 299

Contacting Family Members..................................... 300

Case Example: A Claim after 20 Years............................. 302

Placement in a Grave or Crypt.................................... 303

CHAPTER 14: Risk Assessment and Insurance.............. 306

Purpose of Insurance........................................... 308

The Need for Risk Assessment.................................... 309

When Should a Risk Assessment be done?.......................... 311

Involving Employees in the Assessment Process...................... 312

How to Conduct a Risk Assessment............................... 313

History of Insurance........................................... 315

Choosing an Insurance Company................................. 317

Professional Liability Insurance/ Errors-and-Omissions................. 322

What is Professional Negligence?.................................. 323

The Need for Professional Liability/ Errors-and-Omissions Insurance...... 323

How Much Coverage is Necessary?................................ 327

Assessing How Much Professional Liability Insurance is Needed.......... 329

Stand-alone Policy............................................ 331

Commercial (comprehensive) General Liability Insurance............... 331

Umbrella Liability Insurance – Best Practice Recommendation........... 333

Products Liability Insurance..................................... 334

Employment Practices Insurance................................. 335

Commercial Crime Insurance-Fidelity Bonds......................... 335

Dealing with Personal Property.................................... 335

Choosing an Insurance Company and Agent......................... 336

CHAPTER 15: When You Are Sued........................ 340

Handling Complaints to Reduce Lawsuits........................... 341

Case Example: A Disturbing Disinterment – Tell or Not Tell?............ 342

Three-Step Approach to Resolving Complaints....................... 344

Best Practice to Reduce Lawsuits.................................. 346

How a Lawsuit Develops........................................ 348

Steps in a Lawsuit............................................. 350

Types of Legal Cases........................................... 351

Early Stages of a Lawsuit........................................ 352

Middle Stages of a Lawsuit...................................... 354

Last Stages of a Lawsuit........................................ 361

Alternate Dispute Resolution (ADR)–Other Ways to Decide Disputes....... 366

Steps You MUST Take If You Are Sued............................ 368

Things You Should NEVER Do When You Are Sued................... 373

Basic Courtroom Behavior...................................... 374

Choosing an Attorney.......................................... 376

Prevention: Your Best Strategy................................... 378

General Questions Concerning Lawsuits............................. 379

 

Authors’ Biographies........................................... 384

Appendix 1: Emotional Distress................................... 386

Appendix 2: Professionalism..................................... 406

Bibliography................................................. 415

Resources................................................... 420

Sample Forms 425

 

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